Valentine’s Day is Nice, But Love is an Everyday Thing

Why wait for one day a year to celebrate love when the little moments matter most?

Valentine’s Day is that time of year when love gets the spotlight—hearts, flowers, prix-fixe menus, and grand gestures. And while I’m all for celebrating love, I’ve always felt that if you truly appreciate and cherish your partner, every day should already be a celebration.

Now, don’t get me wrong—there’s a certain magic to Valentine’s Day, especially when you’re a kid. I still remember the excitement of exchanging little cards in elementary school, hoping that one special person would give me something just a little extra. The thrill of a childhood crush, the nervous energy, the innocent joy of love in its earliest form. That’s the kind of Valentine’s Day energy that makes sense to me.

Of course, when you’re first starting a relationship, Valentine’s Day feels different. The excitement of new love, the thrill of getting to know someone, and the anticipation of a romantic gesture can make February 14th feel extra special. But as time goes on and your love deepens, the significance of a single day pales in comparison to the small, consistent acts of love that define a long-term relationship.

But as adults? Lina and I don’t buy into the overhyped, overpacked restaurant scene on February 14th. We’ve learned that the best way to celebrate is on our own terms. Sometimes that means picking up a great Valentine’s dinner package from a local spot and enjoying it at home. Other times, it means going out for a special meal after the holiday rush, when the pressure is off and the service isn’t stretched thin.

Celebrating Love Every Day

If you’re with the right person, the love you share isn’t about one day—it’s about the little things, the everyday moments that make life richer. Here are some ways to celebrate love every day:

Small, Unexpected Gestures – A sweet note left on the counter, their favorite snack waiting for them, or a random “just because” compliment can mean more than any grand gesture.

Cooking Together – Making a meal as a team is an underrated way to bond. It turns a simple dinner into quality time. Bonus points for a soundtrack of your favorite love songs.

Morning or Evening Rituals – Whether it’s having coffee together in the morning or winding down with a recap of the day, these little shared moments add up over time.

Sharing Music – Send each other songs that remind you of one another. Music has a way of expressing love in ways words can’t always capture.

Random Date Nights – No need to wait for a holiday! A random Tuesday can be just as special as Valentine’s Day if you make the effort.

Take the Time to Listen – Sometimes the best way to show love is simply by being present. Really listen—without distractions, without waiting for your turn to talk. Whether it’s a deep conversation or just venting about the day, feeling heard is a powerful form of love.

Mindful Appreciation – Take a moment each day to appreciate your partner. Out loud. Let them know you see them, you hear them, and you’re grateful for them.

At the end of the day, love isn’t about one big display—it’s about the steady, consistent effort to appreciate, respect, and cherish the person you’re with. That’s why in our house…EVERY day is a celebration. 🎉❤️

Astro Joe Garcia

All I Want is You - U2

All I Want Is You by U2 is a song that strips love down to its purest form. Throughout the lyrics, Bono contrasts material offerings—“You say you want diamonds and a ring of gold”—with the deeper truth that none of it holds real meaning without true presence and devotion. The song builds with raw emotion, repeating the line “All I want is you,” reinforcing the idea that love isn’t about things, but about the person themselves.

This message resonates far beyond just romantic gestures. Love, in its most enduring form, isn’t defined by grand occasions or carefully planned moments—it’s found in the quiet, everyday acts of kindness, patience, and understanding. Just like the song suggests, true connection isn’t about what can be given in a material sense, but about showing up, listening, and sharing life together. While Valentine’s Day may highlight love for a single day, real love is about celebrating it in the little moments, every single day.